I tried everything. The simple truth is that you are not guaranteed a consistent result with these boards. Either it will work, or either it won't. And the only explanation I can give is that it has something to do with voltages and what kind of Northbridge you got. Maybe on the boards that it does work on, the NB can tolerate a lower voltage. Who knows.
The Foxconn G45M-S BIOS showed a little promise, but it stalls at "PCI IRQ Routing Table Error". It's not a hard stall but a system halt. I tried copying the routing table from the Dell BIOS to the Foxconn, but that only showed the routing table error at a different address.
I also tried repositioning the sticker and shaving off more of the sticker plastic so that it fit better. Didn't help. I tried flashing with AFUWin with all options ticked, no dice. As I mentioned, and as a previous user has tried, I flashed the BIOS externally with a programmer.
I might try an E5430 I also have and see if that works. But I doubt it. Look for another board if you plan to do this mod.
EDIT: No go with the E5430 either.