As for the router, I might be able to put it in fail-safe mode (rmber i got openwrt), then throuh telnet I mighht go back to full factory defaults, secure the pho connetions with keys so no one else except me can get a ssh connection to the router, then disable telnet and maybe the luci interface altogether just to be extra careful. All this being done on a windows xp pc notebook with no internet connection. I will save the keys there. If all this doesnt work then idk.