i what the cause of the crashing
it is a mod called
HONOR CLOAKS
i have a bunch installed
ADEC Tera Armor Collection TBBP - ADEC Tera Armor Collection Version 1_4 TBBP
Acdale Better Females By Bella Natural Edition - CBBE Less Make-Up
Immersive Armors - Immersive Armors v6
Audio Overhaul for Skyrim - AOS_1_3
Better Arrow Stats
Lightweight Dragon bones and scales - Lightweight Bones and scales
Kitiara - Standalone Follower - Custom Voiced - Kitiara - Standalone Follower
Lovely Jessica Redux - Lovely Jessica - CBBE version
Beautiful Followers - SBF Followers
Alternate Start - Live Another Life - Alternate Start - Live Another Life Gameplay effects and changes
Body By Race - Skyrim - CBBE - BBP - Body by Race Immersion
Superior Rock Textures - Hiqh Quality HD 2K and 4K and 1K replacers - Superior Rocks Dark Grey Ultra-HD-4K
RaceCompatibility with fixes
Calientes Female Body Mod Big Bottom Edition -CBBE-
BLEED - A Blood Overhaul Overhauls
Lunari Race V1.63 Races,
UNPB Body NMM BAIN Installer v2-5-2 FIX-37900-2-5-2
A Quality World Map User interfaces
Awesome Loading Screen Replacement NOW with Dovahbear version - Awesome Loading Screen Replacement User
SkyUI User interfaces
RealVision ENB Visuals and graphics
Arrow Smithing Mod - Arrow Smithing V2 Weapons
Immersive Weapons - Immersive Weapons Weapons
Lore Weapon Expansion - Lore Weapon Expansion
Lost LongSwords - Lost LongSwords 1-HANDED