Also, I didn't know what to do. I think I still love her, and I think that the message was a mean joke played by a friend. As for my upbringing, I was raised in a Christian house, and went to a private Christian school until the age of 10, after that I moved to where I currently live now. My parents were, and are always supportive, and I get straight A's. My parental upbringing appears to me to not have affected my discission.