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Dat cute girl in middle school

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So. I am a middle school student, and the girl with the locker above mine is kinda cute, and nice, but not socially out of range. Being ultra-geek, I MUST CAPITALIZE!!! I am not looking to ask her out just yet (ultra-geek nerves, amirite? DX). How do I have a conversation with her that doesn't end after the first back and forth?

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easy. talk about somethin interestin (for her mind you, not you  ;) ) just initiate conversation thats all there is to it

what if I don't know what that is?

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Is it that hard to talk to other humans nowadays? I mean you can just talk about anything that is related to you both, that usually invites interesting conversations.

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what if I don't know what that is?

 

You my friend have to learn how to observe people then or.... Find her social networks and see what she's into, that's the point of social media right? >.>

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As a side note... you're asking a forum of almost exclusively nerds. Not sure what you're expecting from asking here. :|

xD just realized that.....

well, I figured there had to be somebody here with a girlfriend, as most of you are in college or graduated........ :((((((((

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what if I don't know what that is?

Take a deep breath, throw out the nervousness and just talk. If you dont know, start with something about homework as you can both relate and most likely both have a similar view on it (hate the shit amirighte?)

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So. I am a middle school student, and the girl with the locker above mine is kinda cute, and nice, but not socially out of range. Being ultra-geek, I MUST CAPITALIZE!!! I am not looking to ask her out just yet (ultra-geek nerves, amirite? DX). How do I have a conversation with her that doesn't end after the first back and forth?

softcore porn is all im going to say mang

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You my friend have to learn how to observe people then or.... Find her social networks and see what she's into, that's the point of social media right? >.>

#internetstalking for the win

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Is it that hard to talk to other humans nowadays? I mean you can just talk about anything that is related to you both, that usually invites interesting conversations.

 

talking to same gender is easy, for guys we can just all bro bro on each other

 

talking to different gender is different, ok i admit i'm such a pussy @_@

 

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You my friend have to learn how to observe people then or.... Find her social networks and see what she's into, that's the point of social media right? >.>

Uh... the stalking part is kinda weird. Especially when she asks you how you know she likes Some obscure band. xD

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welcome to puberty. your dick now controls your life. dont worry, youll learn to beat it soon. then it will understand and be more well behaved. no pun in tended.

It isn't my dick! genuinely only looked at her like that once or twice, she seems genuinely nice...

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#internetstalking for the win

 

Its not stalking, its using teh resources open to you.

 

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First of all stop using 'xD' and 'DX' and if you use '^^' then stop that asap too.

Second, be social and ask her if she wants to hang out at first.

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easy. talk about somethin interestin (for her mind you, not you  ;) ) just initiate conversation thats all there is to it

This is pretty sound advise. Actively listen also you can catch interests so you can then start more conversations. Once in a while restate what she says in your own words so she knows you are doing your best to engage. 

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Uh... the stalking part is kinda weird. Especially when she asks you how you know she likes Some obscure band. xD

 

Be smart about it man.... you'll learn the technique soon enough and master it.

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Uh... the stalking part is kinda weird. Especially when she asks you how you know she likes Some obscure band. xD

me:uh... I, um... overheard you... and your friends talking about it!

her:none of my friends talk about that with me...

me: (forever alone meme) (bad luck brian meme) #virgin4lyfe

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First of all stop using 'xD' and 'DX' and if you use '^^' then stop that asap too.

Second, be social and ask her if she wants to hang out at first.

Why I like xD... xD;)

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As a side note... you're asking a forum of almost exclusively nerds. Not sure what you're expecting from asking here. :|

It happens all the time now. It's like a normal thing here... occasionally you'll get good advice(depending on what you think is good of course..).

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Make daily chit chat and eventually it will become normal for you two to chat. In these types of social environments people are based on a routine so becoming apart of that is important because when the time comes, you don't talk to her for a day or two and she will notice. This will make her WANT to talk to you. This is a good thing for women in general here because once you ignore them, it drives them crazy and they come to you.

 

I have great luck with this and not to float my own boat, never have a problem getting the girl I want.

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