Bros n lady bros advise me

[Ebony Falcon]

So I met up with a woman I used to go to school with, we have chilled the last few days n it’s been great, I wanna ask her out but don’t no how to cause we met up as mates ect 

what’s w good way to approach it, 

id rather say something now get rejected and carry on as mates rather than end up having a propa crush on her in a month or so 

 

so thoughts how do I aproach this ??

 

many thanks 

[tkitch]

Ummmm, this was less complicated before COVID, when you could just invite someone out to dinner or something....

 

Invite her to a park on a socially distanced picnic?  Or something similar?

 

And just remember:  If you get turned down, Take it like an adult and move on.

[Ebony Falcon]

2 minutes ago, tkitch said:

Ummmm, this was less complicated before COVID, when you could just invite someone out to dinner or something....

 

Invite her to a park on a socially distanced picnic?  Or something similar?

 

And just remember:  If you get turned down, Take it like an adult and move on.

U think that’s sound to do, just ask her yeah ? 

[tkitch]

1 minute ago, Ebony Falcon said:

U think that’s sound to do, just ask her yeah ? 

If you need some complicated scheme to set things up?  There's def not enough chemistry to make a relationship work.

 

I asked my GF out 5 years ago to dinner (Ramen shop, up the street from her house.)  Nothing complicated, no crazy schemes.  Just ask her directly, and that's generally appreciated.  (Too many people play games.)

[Ebony Falcon]

7 minutes ago, Caroline said:

I'd rather have a date with a chill guy tell me hey wanna go to Wendy's tonight rather than a pretentious moron that wants to take me to an expensive restaurant as an excuse to f*ck me. Don't be that last guy.

 

went out with a guy like that once and he got extremely mad because I rejected his kiss and started yelling in front of everyone that he had just spent a lot of money on a date and that I was an ungrateful whore so I sucker punched him and took a bus home. 

maybe that's why I'm still single tho

Yes bro what a nob. Glad u smashed his face in 

Na I’m chill my idea of a date is a walk round park n have a sandwich n a chat like 

[Guest]

imply the subject and allow her to indirectly say yes or no.

 

Or just say "We're good friends, yeah? Would you be open to trying to be more than friends? If not, we're still cool."

[Guest]

43 minutes ago, Caroline said:

went out with a guy like that once and he got extremely mad because I rejected his kiss and started yelling in front of everyone that he had just spent a lot of money on a date and that I was an ungrateful whore so I sucker punched him and took a bus home. 

maybe that's why I'm still single tho

I sense a discrepancy...

What do people mean when they say words?

[Letgomyleghoe]

Just ask her, last time I asked someone out was when I dropped back off at her house after dinner, don’t make it anything big or fancy. 

[Teddy07]

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[TetraSky]

1 hour ago, comander said:

Keep inviting her out. Keep things on the flirty side/compliment her. 

Don't do this. It doesn't work. Do it once, maybe twice after a bit of time has passed, no more unless you feel things have actually changed for the better between you two.

 

She will just start avoiding you if you keep inviting her and complimenting her out of nowhere for no good reason.

[sub68]

A picnic sounds good to do

[Ebony Falcon]

18 hours ago, tkitch said:

 

18 hours ago, Ebony Falcon said:

18 hours ago, tkitch said:

 

16 hours ago, Caroline said:

 

15 hours ago, fpo said:

 

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10 hours ago, comander said:

 

9 hours ago, Letgomyleghoe said:

 

9 hours ago, TetraSky said:

8 hours ago, comander said:

 

8 hours ago, sub68 said:

 

Quick update, was a fat No lol

[Guest]

4 hours ago, Ebony Falcon said:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Quick update, was a fat No lol

Did you tell her you’re a nice guy & deserve her? Haha. 

 

At least you are good friends & capable of being friends. 

[tkitch]

5 hours ago, Ebony Falcon said:

Quick update, was a fat No lol

Sucks, but now you know!

[sub68]

On 9/10/2020 at 6:09 AM, Dean0919 said:

He totally deserved.

sry about that

[Guest]

2 minutes ago, sub68 said:

sry about that

I forgive you.

[sub68]

Just now, fpo said:

I forgive you.

your not the OP

[Rybo]

1 hour ago, sub68 said:

your not the OP

Sorry about that mistake...

[wamred]

On 9/9/2020 at 11:26 AM, Ebony Falcon said:

So I met up with a woman I used to go to school with, we have chilled the last few days n it’s been great, I wanna ask her out but don’t no how to cause we met up as mates ect 

what’s w good way to approach it, 

id rather say something now get rejected and carry on as mates rather than end up having a propa crush on her in a month or so 

 

so thoughts how do I aproach this ??

 

many thanks 

Personally, I would just let the friendship grow and let things go on naturally if that is what you want. That being said, I am not the one that you want relationship advice from.