How to ask out my crush that likes me?

[piemadd]

Ok, I've know this girl for a few months now. A mutual friend tells me that she like me, so thats cool. Do I just go up to her and tell her I like her and ask if she wants to be my gf or what?

 

Help out a fellow techie here!

[Minorika]

I dont really have any experience in that field but i think it´s best to be open about it.

And since she like´s you what could go wrong?

 

[AshleyAshes]

If you know the other party likes you I'm gonna go with 'Just go ask them'.

[Ryujin2003]

Just be open. The worst she says it no, and that's the same as never asking to begin with.

[Crunchy Dragon]

I'd start by just asking if she wants to meet up and hang out or something and then ask her to confirm it while you guys are out doing whatever you choose.

[Ryujin2003]

1 minute ago, Crunchy Dragon said:

I'd start by just asking if she wants to meet up and hang out or something and then ask her to confirm it while you guys are out doing whatever you choose.

Yeah better to solidify conversation first. Might seem a little less creepy. And might be less pressure today spontaneously and randomly placed. Especially if others are around. Assuming your young based on the question, so the more private that conversation is, probably better.

 

Don't just go through other people. Go to the source.

[RyomaSJibenG]

4 hours ago, Crunchy Dragon said:

I'd start by just asking if she wants to meet up and hang out or something and then ask her to confirm it while you guys are out doing whatever you choose.

pretty much this, start slow and make your way up

[Canada EH]

8 hours ago, Implosivetech said:

Ok, I've know this girl for a few months now. A mutual friend tells me that she like me, so thats cool. Do I just go up to her and tell her I like her and ask if she wants to be my gf or what?

 

Help out a fellow techie here!

You gotta act cool and swavey, take her out for a little shindig somewhere quiet so you can have a heart to hear and you feel her out see how much shes into you and go for the homerun

[keavlar]

OMFG> this chat is like a chat room for 10 years old boys.

Well , grownups usually what do. 

1. Ask her out to go for a date. 

2. Depending on her answer , you can understand if she having interest in you. 

3. While on a date, after!!!  only after you ate, try to take her hand, or suggest to take yours .(while walking, not just sitting)

If she does that, or mutually hold your hand. You good. (this is how she should hold you!  )

4. In the end of the date, try to kiss her, slowly, so she has time to understand, what you trying to do! 

5. From there, you will know! 

 

[Quadriplegic]

Ask her if she will be the RAM for your Ryzen

[keavlar]

18 minutes ago, Quadriplegic said:

Ask her if she will be the RAM for your Ryzen

Really mate?

Its like asking her to sate you, and at the same time, to tell her, "But you not the only one I will be dating with".

You need to ask something like - "Will you be my key to the Ferrari ",. This way she know, she the only one in relationship . 

Unless , this key good for 2 cars. 

[NelizMastr]

12 minutes ago, keavlar said:

Really mate?

Its like asking her to sate you, and at the same time, to tell her, "But you not the only one I will be dating with".

You need to ask something like - "Will you be my key to the Ferrari ",. This way she know, she the only one in relationship . 

Unless , this key good for 2 cars. 

In reality, she'll be the lock and you'll have the key for "unlocking" the good stuff  

[Tcrumpen]

11 hours ago, Implosivetech said:

Ok, I've know this girl for a few months now. A mutual friend tells me that she like me, so thats cool. Do I just go up to her and tell her I like her and ask if she wants to be my gf or what?

 

Help out a fellow techie here!

I going to guess that you're relatively young; which is fine. First off don't ask her to be your gf that coming on WAY to strong. Ask her out for coffee or something like bowling, you want to keep "first dates" casual and relatively stress free, it's time to get to know the person. Also FLIRT with her, depending on your ages dictates what is appropriate, if your 15 then sexual flirts won't go down well, but if your 18 or so then the occasional sexual flirt can work but you have to choose the right moment

 

If you tend to freeze up when talking to her (or women in general) you have 2 options;

 

- Suck up and just got for it

- Get a friend to lightly pull a "Have you met ted" situation

 

 

Girls LOVE a girl with confidence

[JoostinOnline]

11 hours ago, Ryujin2003 said:

Just be open. The worst she says it no, and that's the same as never asking to begin with.

You forgot the "maybe" option.

[piemadd]

4 hours ago, Tcrumpen said:

I going to guess that you're relatively young; which is fine. First off don't ask her to be your gf that coming on WAY to strong. Ask her out for coffee or something like bowling, you want to keep "first dates" casual and relatively stress free, it's time to get to know the person. Also FLIRT with her, depending on your ages dictates what is appropriate, if your 15 then sexual flirts won't go down well, but if your 18 or so then the occasional sexual flirt can work but you have to choose the right moment

 

If you tend to freeze up when talking to her (or women in general) you have 2 options;

 

- Suck up and just got for it

- Get a friend to lightly pull a "Have you met ted" situation

 

 

Girls LOVE a girl with confidence

We already have a mutual friend that has done that

 

also, Girls LOVE a *guy* with confidence

[piemadd]

5 hours ago, Quadriplegic said:

Ask her if she will be the RAM for your Ryzen

Costs too much

[wasab]

16 hours ago, Implosivetech said:

Ok, I've know this girl for a few months now. A mutual friend tells me that she like me, so thats cool. Do I just go up to her and tell her I like her and ask if she wants to be my gf or what?

 

Help out a fellow techie here!

Ask her out dummy. Straight up ask her out in a romance relationship. If she rejected you(why would she if she says she liked you?) just say okay but you will always be available if she changed her mind.

 

 

 

[Tcrumpen]

28 minutes ago, Implosivetech said:

We already have a mutual friend that has done that

 

also, Girls LOVE a *guy* with confidence

Sorry my bad on the typo there, if you have a mutual friend then use them to do have you met ted, forces you into a conversation; plus if you both like HIMYM then that's a good conversation point

[Theguywhobea]

Take your dick out

[captain_to_fire]

Uhm, have a Playbook like Barney Stinson? 

 

[n8cwhite]

Casually ask her.

That's what I did.

If she likes you she won't say no.

 

Just ask my dude. That's what worked for me.

[MellowCream]

delete this 

[piemadd]

1 minute ago, MellowCream said:

delete this 

no

[cluelessgenius]

takes confidence but id suggest just go up and kiss her when she doesnt expect it and is possibly not in a group or something and then if she kisses back = good if you get a han to the face = at least you know where you stand.

this whole does he/she or does he/she not asking is wasted time.

[AntInATree]

1 minute ago, cluelessgenius said:

takes confidence but id suggest just go up and kiss her when she doesnt expect it and is possibly not in a group or something and then if she kisses back = good if you get a han to the face = at least you know where you stand.

this whole does he/she or does he/she not asking is wasted time.

Don't do this. This is sexual assault. If you want to know if she likes you ask. It is easy. Use words.