Girlfriends

[spwath]

I have seen a lot of girls that I have interest in. I have decided to build up the courage and talk to one of them. If I get shot down then I will learn. I'm tired of being shy.

 

 

Yeah ig uess thats what i have to do.

 

Im just really nervous. never done this before. 

[Mephikun]

Just a tip for everyone: Don't stress about not having a girlfriend/boyfriend, especially if you're young. In most cases, you'll eventually find 'the one', and you'll be happy with them. No point in being stressed out about it

 

@coolkingler1, I've had that same situation before. It sucks, but people like that simply don't deserve you. In a relationship, effort has to be put in equally by both sides, it doesn't really work if it's one sided. Just kick back, relax, play some games, watch movies/tv shows, go out, do whatever makes you happy. You'll find someone better. I can guarantee it.

 

@spwath, go for it. You won't get anywhere if you don't try It's okay to be nervous, hell I was nervous before I asked out anyone I've ever dated, if you get shot down it sucks, but you've gotta take some risks

[Guest]

Just a tip for everyone: Don't stress about not having a girlfriend/boyfriend, especially if you're young. In most cases, you'll eventually find 'the one', and you'll be happy with them. No point in being stressed out about it

 

@coolkingler1, I've had that same situation before. It sucks, but people like that simply don't deserve you. In a relationship, effort has to be put in equally by both sides, it doesn't really work if it's one sided. Just kick back, relax, play some games, watch movies/tv shows, go out, do whatever makes you happy. You'll find someone better. I can guarantee it.

I will see. I knew it was coming so it's not that bad.

[GrimNeo]

Nah, have to sleep now, school again tomorrow and such... Yeah bitchy indeed.

Probably convincing herself that I am the bad guy at this moment.

It's her loss.

 

Yeah ig uess thats what i have to do.

 

Im just really nervous. never done this before. 

I have talked to girls before but usually someone helps me out. I did meet one girl and talk to her. As you see it did not work lol. I get really nervous but I say f it. Time for me to stop being shy.

[Mephikun]

I will see. I knew it was coming so it's not that bad.

Yeah, that kind of stuff happens. It's rough, and hurts at first, but just keep doing stuff you love, it gets better fairly quickly.

[JAKEBAB]

Well nothing happened.

The girls found 6(!!!) Porn magazines under their bed tho.

But nothing.

Last night I had a dream there was a naked party. Unfortunately, the girl I like didn't show up. But there were other girls their. It was kinda hard to hide my boner, as I was naked too.

Lol just a a little TMI haha atleast u see her at school though right? It's not like shes in a different country so u do still have a chance.

 

You probably will never see the girl you like naked in your dreams tbh.

Not necessarily, I havn't ever but my ex who was dating someone i knew at the time had a dream about me that wasn't necessarily PG. It's kinda what made her realize she liked me more than a friend. Don't know if guys are different than girls in that way though

 

she loves her games more than me I am sure.

 

I know that feeling unfortunately, reason why i don't want another gf that loves video games lol 

[XTankSlayerX]

Not necessarily, I havn't ever but my ex who was dating someone i knew at the time had a dream about me that wasn't necessarily PG. It's kinda what made her realize she liked me more than a friend. Don't know if guys are different than girls in that way though

Jesus...

 

That's one way to find out,  its still better than waking up tied up and her telling you eh?

 

I've never had that happen to me though. So I cant say

[spwath]

Lol just a a little TMI haha atleast u see her at school though right? It's not like shes in a different country so u do still have a chance.

Hey, no such thing as tmi when your anonymous.

Yeah, yeah, I do, buti don't see her as much, before it was for 2 and a half hours every day at practice, and in Canada, now its 5 seconds in the Hall.

[Toxic Tom]

Hey, no such thing as tmi when your anonymous.

Yeah, yeah, I do, buti don't see her as much, before it was for 2 and a half hours every day at practice, and in Canada, now its 5 seconds in the Hall.

I say optimise that 5 seconds in the hall, ask for her number, ask if she's busy on whatever date, whether she wants to go do something some time. If she likes you the answer will be "Yeah sure" or "the would be awesome" if the answer is anything ambiguous you can be sure she doesn't want to go out with you, in which case don't pursue it. She won't think anything less of you for asking though.

Simples

[killers993]

I'm not sure what to think of this. My girlfriend told me "If I don't get on much dont worry". I said ok and asked why but she went offline. The only thing I can think of is that something happened with her family. Last Sunday her dad got into a fight with her mom and said that he was going to get a divorce and he shut off the internet (on my gf's birth day). I don't know what to think right now.   

[chimmychunger]

While you bumped this, I think a break up is incoming soon for me. I break it I mean.

For a while now I am not getting attention from my Gf at all, ignoring me, never showing interest etc. Just ridiculous.

Even now when I addressed these problems via skype, I know she read it, but she just ignores.

Enough is enough.

Oh and I addressed this before, she just makes excuses, that are partially invalid.

 

i say get out of that relationship, if she dosent give you attention she doesnt deserve your attention

[chimmychunger]

I'm not sure what to think of this. My girlfriend told me "If I don't get on much dont worry". I said ok and asked why but she went offline. The only thing I can think of is that something happened with her family. Last Sunday her dad got into a fight with her mom and said that he was going to get a divorce and he shut off the internet (on my gf's birth day). I don't know what to think right now.   

 

it should pass, if it doesnt then you may need to talk to each other in person about it

[chimmychunger]

I think it's amazing how a thread about girlfriends  (After I thought was long dead) in a tech forum has nearly reached 50 pages. That's some feat.

 

it was long dead but i had girl troubles and didnt want to start a new thread so here we are

[DIV1D3]

Never had a girlfriend, and looks as if I never will, sitting at my PC all day isn't a very attractive attribute...

 

Also, @GrimNeo, your profile GIF perfectly portrays my feelings towards giant spiders, even small ass ones at that. 

[qwertywarrior]

i should visit off topic more

never knew there was a girl friend thread

[chimmychunger]

i should visit off topic more

never knew there was a girl friend thread

 

this thread has been growing for around a year and a half

[qwertywarrior]

this thread has been growing for around a year and a half

i stopped positing here

one more "strike" and im out

 

i think im hilarious but m0ds dont agree

[chimmychunger]

i stopped positing here

one more "strike" and im out

 

i think im hilarious but m0ds dont agree

 

i agree with you some of your posts have killed me 

[MeltingPoint]

Until I get one, I am going to hate this thread.

[soup]

20 years old. In my case, I have never been in a serious relationship. I have done a lot of women though (Be safe my lads).

Done ! Done . With an attitude like that it's no wonder you have never been in a serious relationship.

[ArM]

Womans or Girlfriends are bad if they don't push you up to the next level.

 

I already had most relations and If here it's a couple of things that I learned from them and it's valuable even if your a Man or a Woman:

 

- Don't try to be another than you are just be yourself,

- Try but if he didn't work stop,

- Don't focus to much on the relationship, it must comes naturally, cause if don't it wouldn't work,

- You must find and know what are you waiting for it,

- If your feeling him or her give you what you need that is probably the right person opposite it isn't,

- Always have and stay in retreat of the relationship (Talk about it with your best friends they much can help you in some situations even if you know you),

- Focus on your projects before the relationship.

 

I don't pretend I have a great knowledge off but all we say it's just base on our experiences after all & There probably more I knows but I think that's a good start to begin.

[SeriouslyMikey]

I never realised this thread was still about. Actually surprised me.

 

Boyfriend and I are happily heading through our second year together. ^^

[ShadowCaptain]

i should visit off topic more

never knew there was a girl friend thread

 

no

 

its a "i wish i had a girlfriend" thread

[Delusional Phil]

This has becomed very popular very fast ... I'm 15 and have no intention for a girlfriend ... Just friend will do 

[MrRavens]

no

 

its a "i wish i had a girlfriend" thread

 

Wow, I gotta clean off my screen because of you. Spat my drink out man!