Girlfriends

[VulsaviiK]

Been with my gf for 7 years, meet here when I was 18...you got years man, enjoy being a man whore whilst you can

 

Speaking as someone who is 21, let's be realistic. Unless you're in the right social circles, that almost never happens

[Volbet]

here is an interesting thing for you guys, if you're overweight and you like a girl and she knows and point blankly refuses to go out with you. then you become skinny and she then wants to go out with you. shoudl this type of person be avoided

Not necessarily. Sexual attration is a big thing in most relationships, aswell as the emotional bond.

If only the emotional bond is there, it might not be enough for a relationship, but it could form a strong friendship.

To be honest, a serious relationship without an intimate side, gets boring rather quickly, and could easily just have been a friendship.

I'm sorry, but I'm not sleeping with your personality

 

Personally, I do consider looks to be important. I have some preferences in how I want a girl to look, and if they don't meet those preferences, they aren't something I would consider dating.

And most people probably have it the same way about me.

Call me shallow, but that's just how I approach this.

 

I always disliked the idea, that we should never change. Of course we have to change, and if a partner can help us change for the better, than all the better.

 

However, if a girl only care about looks, and completly ignores you, just becuase you are overweight, that might be a warning sign. 

If the only quality a person see in you is your looks, then they might be something you should avoid.

[martlart]

here is an interesting thing for you guys, if you're overweight and you like a girl and she knows and point blankly refuses to go out with you. then you become skinny and she then wants to go out with you. shoudl this type of person be avoided

It could mean that she has high standards, and not only about looks. If a person is overweight, it might be a sign of low self-control.

[LAwLz]

Call me shallow, but that's just how I approach this.

 

I always disliked the idea, that we should never change. Of course we have to change, and if a partner can help us change for the better, than all the better.

 

However, if a girl only care about looks, and completly ignores you, just becuase you are overweight, that might be a warning sign. 

If the only quality a person see in you is your looks, then they might be something you should avoid.

Well approaching it from any other angle would be to go against millions of years of biology.

 

Also, if you still like her even after that comment you would just do yourself a disservice by not going out with her. You like her, she likes you, and you will deny both of you happiness just because she said something mean to you before?

 

If she is only in it for your looks then you will probably quickly notice that and (hopefully) start liking her less and less, and your relationship will end fairly quickly.

[Zawsze]

Fell inlove and with my friend and got hurt in HS when I was 16. Now i'm 19 going 20 in july and i never got any GF sad life

[spwath]

Damn your lucky af haha do you have teachers/coach going? You guys should plan a spin the bottle night or something with the girls lol

Your making me want to be in school again haha

Well nothing happened.

The girls found 6(!!!) Porn magazines under their bed tho.

But nothing.

Last night I had a dream there was a naked party. Unfortunately, the girl I like didn't show up. But there were other girls their. It was kinda hard to hide my boner, as I was naked too.

[XTankSlayerX]

Well nothing happened.

The girls found 6(!!!) Porn magazines under their bed tho.

But nothing.

TMI Mate. What happens in Canada, stays in Canada!

You probably will never see the girl you like naked in your dreams tbh.

Are you after her body or her heart mate?

[spwath]

TMI Mate. What happens in Canada, stays in Canada!

You probably will never see the girl you like naked in your dreams tbh.

Are you after her body or her heart mate?

Well that's a shame.

I suppose I'm after both, but probably mostly the heart. At this age, most don't do much with the body anyway.

[GrimNeo]

Well that's a shame.

I suppose I'm after both, but probably mostly the heart. At this age, most don't do much with the body anyway.

Listen to the heart..... lol thought of that song. It's whats on the inside that matters. Did you ever talk to her? I know you made that thread but I was offline for 2 days.

[spwath]

Listen to the heart..... lol thought of that song. It's whats on the inside that matters. Did you ever talk to her? I know you made that thread but I was offline for 2 days.

No. I haven't seen her, I think she is sick or some where.

[Guest]

While you bumped this, I think a break up is incoming soon for me. I break it I mean.

For a while now I am not getting attention from my Gf at all, ignoring me, never showing interest etc. Just ridiculous.

Even now when I addressed these problems via skype, I know she read it, but she just ignores.

Enough is enough.

Oh and I addressed this before, she just makes excuses, that are partially invalid.

[GrimNeo]

No. I haven't seen her, I think she is sick or some where.

I have seen a lot of girls that I have interest in. I have decided to build up the courage and talk to one of them. If I get shot down then I will learn. I'm tired of being shy.

 

While you bumped this, I think a break up is incoming soon for me. I break it I mean.

For a while now I am not getting attention from my Gf at all, ignoring me, never showing interest etc. Just ridiculous.

Even now when I addressed these problems via skype, I know she read it, but she just ignores.

Enough is enough.

Sounds like it's time to move on. You deserve the best. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

[Guest]

I have seen a lot of girls that I have interest in. I have decided to build up the courage and talk to one of them. If I get shot down then I will learn. I'm tired of being shy.

 

Sounds like it's time to move on. You deserve the best. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Yes, I'm done.

I said earlier I felt unloved. She said she didn't have time because she is 'stressed'.

Don't know what she is stressed about, she has a rich-ish family, she is going to college, her daddy buys her everything and she games constantly, she loves her games more than me I am sure.

She has no idea what true stress even means.

Also she lives in Denmark and while I did come to her before to visit.... She Said she would come this summer. Okay cool. Then suddenly some days ago she says she isn't sure anymore because she suddenly has to go on vacation with her dad in the summer. Yeah right.

[NARAKU_KAT]

While you bumped this, I think a break up is incoming soon for me. I break it I mean.

For a while now I am not getting attention from my Gf at all, ignoring me, never showing interest etc. Just ridiculous.

Even now when I addressed these problems via skype, I know she read it, but she just ignores.

Enough is enough.

Oh and I addressed this before, she just makes excuses, that are partially invalid.

 

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Sorry M8 i wanted to test that out for a long time.

[Guest]

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Sorry M8 i wanted to test that out for a long time.

Replace those sausages with game discs. She is truly addicted to gaming. More than she loves me.

[GrimNeo]

Yes, I'm done.

I said earlier I felt unloved. She said she didn't have time because she is 'stressed'.

Don't know what she is stressed about, she has a rich-ish family, she is going to college, her daddy buys her everything and she games constantly, she loves her games more than me I am sure.

She has no idea what true stress even means.

Also she lives in Denmark and while I did come to her before to visit.... She Said she would come this summer. Okay cool. Then suddenly some days ago she says she isn't sure anymore because she suddenly has to go on vacation with her dad in the summer. Yeah right.

Oh wow I can relate to your problem. I had the same thing happen to me. A girl I fell in love with and she lived far away as well. We were planning a trip to hang out and she got super stressed. She ended up not wanting to do it because she was stressed. She was really rich and then she blammed her failures at college on me. Although she loved playing games online and did not make enough time for her exams. We broke up. I kind of regret it now. It was a test and if I can't handle her at her worst then I don't deserve her at her best. Lesson learned.

[NARAKU_KAT]

Replace those sausages with game discs. She is truly addicted to gaming. More than she loves me.

 

In all seriousness, you deserve  someone better, don't feel pity on yourself, she's meant to die alone.

[Guest]

Oh wow I can relate to your problem. I had the same thing happen to me. A girl I fell in love with and she lived far away as well. We were planning a trip to hang out and she got super stressed. She ended up not wanting to do it because she was stressed. She was really rich and then she blammed her failures at college on me. Although she loved playing games online and did not make enough time for her. Ended breaking up with her. I kind of regret it now. It was a test and if I can handle her at her worst then I don't deserve her at her best. Lesson learned.

You don't deserve her? Why? She sounds spoiled so it's the other way around.

[Guest]

In all seriousness, you deserve  someone better, don't feel pity on yourself, she's meant to die alone.

Yep, just ridiculous how she ignores my serious requests to talk even.

[Thunderjolt]

I think it's amazing how a thread about girlfriends  (After I thought was long dead) in a tech forum has nearly reached 50 pages. That's some feat.

[GrimNeo]

You don't deserve her? Why? She sounds spoiled so it's the other way around.

The only reason I say that is because she tolerated me at my worst. If anything I was the selfish one. I knew her for 2 years and we dated. She was everything I wanted from a girlfriend. She really did have a lot of stress going on at the time. When I was stressed she was there for me.

[QuadNine]

Well the best friend of the girl I like said Me and the girl I like would be a great couple,and then she said that the girl I like(TGIL) is afraid to have a boyfriend, then I say something and say I have never been in a relationship, the she says its alright you have TGIL. I don't know if her friend is trying to say something or knows that I like her and is being a dick.

[Guest]

Oh wow update, told her it was over just now on WhatsApp.

Well, obviously she reads it because she comes online and the marks become blue.

But nope, ignore mode.

[XTankSlayerX]

Oh wow update, told her it was over just now on WhatsApp.

Well, obviously she reads it because she comes online and the marks become blue.

But nope, ignore mode.

Wow...

 

That's a bitch move, like really?

 

Well, at least your free now.... Go play some CSGO or something

[Guest]

Wow...

 

That's a bitch move, like really?

 

Well, at least your free now.... Go play some CSGO or something

Nah, have to sleep now, school again tomorrow and such... Yeah bitchy indeed.

Probably convincing herself that I am the bad guy at this moment.