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djdelarosa25

I'm too afraid of failure

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Posted · Original PosterOP

Long story short, I went to a school far away from home and the people were terrible. Bullies everywhere, no one took school seriously, etc. I ended up going back to my former school where my classmates were always competitive and disciplined. However, I've already missed about two weeks of their schoolwork (they started earlier) and I, being a consistent honor student in my previous years, will have to catch up and it's almost a guarantee that I will get low grades this semester. How do I cope up with failure as I am not used to doing so?

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Accept it. Failure can be whatever you want it to be. But the smart use it as a learning lesson and motivation. The weak use it as an excuse for their problems or a gateway. One semester of bad grades isn't going to tank you.


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Posted · Original PosterOP
Just now, BuckGup said:

Accept it. Failure can be whatever you want it to be. But the smart use it as a learning lesson and motivation. The weak use it as an excuse for their problems or a gateway. One semester of bad grades isn't going to tank you.

 

Thanks, man. I appreciate your advice :)

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I cant emphasise enough how trivial school life seems when you're an adult and looking back at it, every single bully, personal embarrassment or failure you suffered as a teen will seem like a distant/foggy memory.  It feels world ending when bad stuff happens in school but i can tell you that 10 years from now you'll barely remember the names of most of the people you know now. 

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2 hours ago, djdelarosa25 said:

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Failure isn't a bad thing. I failed miserably at my first attempt as a business owner. But I learned from my mistakes. My second attempt has worked flawlessly for the most part....for nearly 15 years. 

 

When my employees fail, I ask them what caused the failure. Of they can answer it, they learned from the mistake. 


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Everyone in the thread so far has given great, honest advice about dealing with failure but you haven't failed yet. Your semester is just beginning and you are only two weeks behind. Take some weekends / evenings to study and you will be caught up in no time. If you have an attitude like you are going to fail then you will. If you tell yourself you can succeed and put in the time then you will succeed.

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4 minutes ago, .Ocean said:

Everyone in the thread so far has given great, honest advice about dealing with failure but you haven't failed yet. Your semester is just beginning and you are only two weeks behind. Take some weekends / evenings to study and you will be caught up in no time. If you have an attitude like you are going to fail then you will. If you tell yourself you can succeed and put in the time then you will succeed.

 

I surely will :) Thanks for all your awesome advice

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You could catch up, school isn't that hard if you actually do it


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20 hours ago, djdelarosa25 said:

Long story short, I went to a school far away from home and the people were terrible. Bullies everywhere, no one took school seriously, etc. I ended up going back to my former school where my classmates were always competitive and disciplined. However, I've already missed about two weeks of their schoolwork (they started earlier) and I, being a consistent honor student in my previous years, will have to catch up and it's almost a guarantee that I will get low grades this semester. How do I cope up with failure as I am not used to doing so?

You need to stand up for yourself, fight if you have to. Its better if you fight actually.

You should talk to your principle about not having that deficit.

You need to learn, its apart of life. You dont get it from an online thing, but you get it from your parents, teachers, and your peers.

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This is the 1st time you gonna have a taste that what does it feel like not being the best. 

 

It will make you uncomfortable. That feeling is nothing to be ashamed of. 

 

I think that that the most important lesson is to know that a lot of  people might be as talented as you. But they might have been through similar things, ( transfer between schools, other things happened in life that caused them distracted or unable to catchup) therefore from now on you can respect those people more. before all these you might think that whoever is not better than me is because they are not hardworking enough. Not talented enough. But now you realized that your accomplishments contains some sort of luck in it. Just like everybody else's. 

 

also so beware of your friends. Whoever talk shit to you just because you got left behind a little, they are not worth your time. Ditch them. 


If it is not broken, let's fix till it is. 

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Also I'm saying this not because I just want to be nice but because it is true. 

 

"The moment you are asking people : how am I gonna deal with this? You are actually already start dealing with it. By asking people's opinions about it. " 

 

it it might take you a while to get out of a slump. But you ar already on the right track. 


If it is not broken, let's fix till it is. 

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