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hey guys, so i am a 14 year old male and in my circle of friends that i know in person and over social networks, about 2/3 are girls. this is mainly because in the town i live (50k people) theres  waaay more female people then male (e.g. my class 21 girls, 3 boys with me).

yesterday someone told me that they find it unmanly and fuckboyish that i am in contact with so many female people (i have about 80 female friends, 6 really good ones and on a daily basis i write/talk to atleast 10 of them)

here in austria too, if you talk to alot of girls people tend to start talking shit so i was wondering what your guys opinion is on this.

so, what do you think?

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I think its totally fine

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Nah, it's not bad. If you're worried about reputation with the other guys, they're probably just jealous.

 

Although, OP, I don't know how to say this but if you think you're gay you're probably gay. If you're not gay then it's what I said above.

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2 minutes ago, theninja35 said:

Nah, it's not bad. If you're worried about reputation with the other guys, they're probably just jealous.

 

Although, OP, I don't know how to say this but if you think you're gay you're probably gay. If you're not gay then it's what I said above.

i have by doubts sometimes, but i like girls more then men so yeah haha

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There isnt anything wrong with it and frankly based on the demographics of where you list it is to be expected.  Where i live the amount of males outnumber women by 2.5:1 because of the large military population.

 

Now there is one exception what i said and that is if you get a Girlfriend; then she may take issue with the amount of female friends you have.  I wouldn't burn any friendships over such a thing, but giving you some advise as you enter into your courtship years. 

 

 

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1 minute ago, Thunderpup said:

There isnt anything wrong with it and frankly based on the demographics of where you list it is to be expected.  Where i live the amount of males outnumber women by 2.5:1 because of the large military population.

 

Now there is one exception what i said and that is if you get a Girlfriend; then she may take issue with the amount of female friends you have.  I wouldn't burn any friendships over such a thing, but giving you some advise as you enter into your courtship years. 

 

 

understood and duly noted, thanks

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15 minutes ago, Radiant said:

i have by doubts sometimes, but i like girls more then men so yeah haha

alright, thanks

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22 minutes ago, Radiant said:

hey guys, so i am a 14 year old male and in my circle of friends that i know in person and over social networks, about 2/3 are girls. this is mainly because in the town i live (50k people) theres  waaay more female people then male (e.g. my class 21 girls, 3 boys with me).

yesterday someone told me that they find it unmanly and fuckboyish that i am in contact with so many female people (i have about 80 female friends, 6 really good ones and on a daily basis i write/talk to atleast 10 of them)

here in austria too, if you talk to alot of girls people tend to start talking shit so i was wondering what your guys opinion is on this.

so, what do you think?

no and stop caring what other people think, just do what the fuck makes you happy and live a happy life.

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1 minute ago, KOMTechAndGaming said:

no and stop caring what other people think, just do what the fuck makes you happy and live a happy life.

damn, this is good attitude

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2 minutes ago, Radiant said:

damn, this is good attitude

its true man, people always going to criticize your choice, judge you for your actions etc etc, so why bother about what they think? where does it get you in life? ill tell you, it doesnt get you far, just do what is good for you and continue that way, people dont like that choice, then you definitely dont them in your life, and have as many female friends as you want :)

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2 minutes ago, theninja35 said:

Yeah, but be careful because you might die if you take it too seriously.

would you rather die doing what you love and had a good life, or have a life thats shitty becuase you care what other people think so much ? id rather die happy.

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2 minutes ago, KOMTechAndGaming said:

its true man, people always going to criticize your choice, judge you for your actions etc etc, so why bother about what they think? where does it get you in life? ill tell you, it doesnt get you far, just do what is good for you and continue that way, people dont like that choice, then you definitely dont them in your life, and have as many female friends as you want :)

im an honest person, it may not get me alot of male friends here but the ones i have i know i can trust

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28 minutes ago, Radiant said:

hey guys, so i am a 14 year old male and in my circle of friends that i know in person and over social networks, about 2/3 are girls. this is mainly because in the town i live (50k people) theres  waaay more female people then male (e.g. my class 21 girls, 3 boys with me).

yesterday someone told me that they find it unmanly and fuckboyish that i am in contact with so many female people (i have about 80 female friends, 6 really good ones and on a daily basis i write/talk to atleast 10 of them)

here in austria too, if you talk to alot of girls people tend to start talking shit so i was wondering what your guys opinion is on this.

so, what do you think?

Don't listen to those dumb tards.

 

 

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1 minute ago, KOMTechAndGaming said:

would you rather die doing what you love and had a good life, or have a life thats shitty becuase you care what other people think so much ? id rather die happy.

me too, btw god i miss living in wales, the people are SOO much friendlier there and people are always in a good mood! i hate this godforbidden austria i hope by 18 i can leave and travel the world and never enter a foot into a german speaking country, i just cant stand them

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1 minute ago, Radiant said:

im an honest person, it may not get me alot of male friends here but the ones i have i know i can trust

i have about 20 friends a mixture of male and female, but out of all of them I can only really trust about 2 of them , its not about having the largest ammount of friends , its about the quality of the friendships you have

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2 minutes ago, Radiant said:

me too, btw god i miss living in wales, the people are SOO much friendlier there and people are always in a good mood! i hate this godforbidden austria i hope by 18 i can leave and travel the world and never enter a foot into a german speaking country, i just cant stand them

i want to travel so bad, just need to save money lol

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2 minutes ago, KOMTechAndGaming said:

i have about 20 friends a mixture of male and female, but out of all of them I can only really trust about 2 of them , its not about having the largest ammount of friends , its about the quality of the friendships you have

thats the point people miss. eventho i trust some of them i only truley trust 1, weve gone through good and bad are are really tight now

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1 minute ago, Radiant said:

thats the point people miss. eventho i trust some of them i only truley trust 1, weve gone through good and bad are are really tight now

better to have real friends who will be their for your good and bad times than have several who wouldnt be

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1 minute ago, NumLock21 said:

 

i dont know what you exactly mean with this but....ok

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10 minutes ago, KOMTechAndGaming said:

would you rather die doing what you love and had a good life, or have a life thats shitty becuase you care what other people think so much ? id rather die happy.

"Everything in moderation". I never said it was bad, I just said to take it easy.

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2 minutes ago, theninja35 said:

"Everything in moderation". I never said it was bad, I just said to take it easy.

im in a ranty mood, kinda super stressed out rn

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