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So I have problem with a girl I really really like. BTW don't mind my bad english, not native lawlzzzz 420Kappa

 

She is religious, catholic to be exact. And I'm not a strong believer, not really an atheist but I just don't think there is 1 supernatural being that made everything etc. We've been talking for quite a while now and she said that she doesn't think she can have a relationship with someone who's not a believer and doesn't go to church. Obviously, I can't talk about the bible with her, because I don't know the content of it etc.

 

But I'm really curious, what is it that holds her back? She says she likes me a lot and loves me, but she thinks there will occur a 'wall' between us with no shared emotions.

Please explain me, or at least try, what is it that a catholic person can't have a relationship with someone who's not catholic?

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So I have problem with a girl I really really like. BTW don't mind my bad english, not native lawlzzzz 420Kappa

 

She is religious, catholic to be exact. And I'm not a strong believer, not really an atheist but I just don't think there is 1 supernatural being that made everything etc. We've been talking for quite a while now and she said that she doesn't think she can have a relationship with someone who's not a believer and doesn't go to church. Obviously, I can't talk about the bible with her, because I don't know the content of it etc.

 

But I'm really curious, what is it that holds her back? She says she likes me a lot and loves me, but she thinks there will occur a 'wall' between us with no shared emotions.

Please explain me, or at least try, what is it that a catholic person can't have a relationship with someone who's not catholic?

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denk dat het meer te maken heeft met de ouders den ik en als ze echt extreem veel van je houd wrm zal ze het dan uitmaken ?

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So I have problem with a girl I really really like. BTW don't mind my bad english, not native lawlzzzz 420Kappa

 

She is religious, catholic to be exact. And I'm not a strong believer, not really an atheist but I just don't think there is 1 supernatural being that made everything etc. We've been talking for quite a while now and she said that she doesn't think she can have a relationship with someone who's not a believer and doesn't go to church. Obviously, I can't talk about the bible with her, because I don't know the content of it etc.

 

But I'm really curious, what is it that holds her back? She says she likes me a lot and loves me, but she thinks there will occur a 'wall' between us with no shared emotions.

Please explain me, or at least try, what is it that a catholic person can't have a relationship with someone who's not catholic?

 

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If shes so close minded that she cant see past the fact that youre not religious, then she doesent "love" you, its simple as that really. Or she might just look for an excuse to break up with you.

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Must be that she is either a very strong believer, or her parents would not approve of it.

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Not Atheist, not believing in supernatural being. Choose one.

Well, he could be a Buddhist :P

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because some people still think there is a "right" and a "wrong" way.

 

if she cant accept small things like religious differences (to me thats a small thing) she's not worth any of your time.

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If you care about her just give up, I'm sure you don't need to go to church so you could just tell her that you agree.

 

Although if you are being forced to play that card you should really think if it's worth.

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denk dat het meer te maken heeft met de ouders den ik en als ze echt extreem veel van je houd wrm zal ze het dan uitmaken ?

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Must be that she is either a very strong believer, or her parents would not approve of it.

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Not Atheist, not believing in supernatural being. Choose one.

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Not Atheist, not believing in supernatural being. Choose one.

I believe that there's something, just not it's some 'god' 

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Not Atheist, not believing in supernatural being. Choose one.

 

Or you know, he means there may be more than one supernatural deity.

 

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Must be that she is either a very strong believer, or her parents would not approve of it.

Well, for the rest she's like completely average and normal. Normal school, and she had boyfriends who were atheist before. Do you really think it's her parents? She's grown up..

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leave her

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If shes so close minded that she cant see past the fact that youre not religious, then she doesent "love" you, its simple as that really. Or she might just look for an excuse to break up with you.

We have been hanging out for a couple of weeks. Can it be that it's just too soon?

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I believe that there's something, just not it's some 'god' 

If you don't believe in the supernatural, you're an atheist. If there's no deities (no gods), you're an atheist. The term has tons of bad connotations and your girlfriend is likely caught up in them. Many people believe that morality comes from a belief in god and without "the fear of god" you would just be an impulse driven immoral bastard. Religious people hold weird and unjustifiable beliefs (the definition of faith is literally an unjustifiable belief). If she can't talk about things on a rational level and actually convey her misgivings, then she isn't worth your time.

 

I'm an atheist and I dated someone who got her masters in religion, and is going on to get a PhD in religion (in another state, hence the breakup). It worked well because we were both able to articulate our stances on topics and neither one of us were irrational about the supernatural.

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Well, for the rest she's like completely average and normal. Normal school, and she had boyfriends who were atheist before. Do you really think it's her parents? She's grown up..

Well if you say she has had atheist boyfriends before.. But now she's like: "she doesn't think she can have a relationship with someone who's not a believer and doesn't go to church."

I don't know man.. 

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So I have problem with a girl I really really like. BTW don't mind my bad english, not native lawlzzzz 420Kappa

 

She is religious, catholic to be exact. And I'm not a strong believer, not really an atheist but I just don't think there is 1 supernatural being that made everything etc. We've been talking for quite a while now and she said that she doesn't think she can have a relationship with someone who's not a believer and doesn't go to church. Obviously, I can't talk about the bible with her, because I don't know the content of it etc.

 

But I'm really curious, what is it that holds her back? She says she likes me a lot and loves me, but she thinks there will occur a 'wall' between us with no shared emotions.

Please explain me, or at least try, what is it that a catholic person can't have a relationship with someone who's not catholic?

She may be trying to convert you to her religion...

 

 

 

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If you don't believe in the supernatural, you're an atheist. If there's no deities (no gods), you're an atheist. The term has tons of bad connotations and your girlfriend is likely caught up in them. Many people believe that morality comes from a belief in god and without "the fear of god" you would just be an impulse driven immoral bastard. Religious people hold weird and unjustifiable beliefs (the definition of faith is literally an unjustifiable belief). If she can't talk about things on a rational level and actually convey her misgivings, then she isn't worth your time.

 

I'm an atheist and I dated someone who got her masters in religion, and is going on to get a PhD in religion (in another state, hence the breakup). It worked well because we were both able to articulate our stances on topics and neither one of us were irrational about the supernatural.

I do have the feeling we can talk about everything and that we accept eachother 100%. By the way, a lot of my family members are religious, but I'm just not convinced that 'god' exists, though I have a lot of respect for catholicism. Did you guys seperate bc of her religion?

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