Problem with the NVidia cards is the somewhat unpredictable behavioue of GPU boost, especially if it doesn't hit a peak with the bench programs you run.
I have MSI RTX 2070 Super, with +125 on the core and +750 on memory (1.5GHz overclock). Adding my core overclock to the stock boost for the card should net a boost clock of 1910MHz. In practice I have seen it boost to 2100MHz and hold 2050MHz almost continuously in demanding games as my temperatures were OK, conversely it has dropped down to 1915Mz when things got a bit warm (good airflow is important).
The higher the overclock the greater the temp and the lower the boost clock i.e. going too high just generates extra heat and can result in lower overall performance and/or crashes.
The Turing cards do like memory overclocks but you need to make sure that you aren't getting memory type artifacts which could be a precursor to failure.
Use Kombuster burn-in test from MSI Afterburner and turn on the Artifact Scanner.