Disabled EEE and power saving features to no luck unfortunatly, for how i set up just the two pcs i used this guide: https://techwiser.com/how-to-connect-pc-to-pc-lan-cable/
Have since set it all back to automatic.
As for what my conncetion shows as its Showing as 10mbps which i also dont understand why its showing that speed any idea on how the set it to gigabit?