That's what I forgot to mention. I am currently playing War Thunder, Elite Dangerous, X4 foundations, would like to get back into Star Citizen, Escape From Tarkov. So a mix of games that i've had to cut down to really just playing War Thunder lately due to the lacking GPU in my laptop. And as I had mentioned before, I am building a new pc which will have the 10900k so that is why I am needing a new GPU. I am not going to build a new pc when the 3000 series GPUs come out, I intend to sell whatever temporary card i go with for now and then buy the 3080 ti when it comes out. I know that the new AMD GPUs have nice features and better support and am glad for them that they made much needed changes compared to the past but for personal reasons I am not interested in going back to AMD, sorry.
Thank you though for the ideas of AMD products though. I do not wish to sound ungrateful for the help, rather I just have my personal preferences now that i'm in my late 30's and have my comfort zone so to speak.