Thanks for the help. I just now put one stick in dimm B2 (normal second spot for 2 channel setup). I behaved with the same problem. I did not do this before as the manual says to only use A2 with one stick. Actually, it does not actually say this, the diagram implies this.
So, then best possibility after all this is a bad board ?? I just took one back, different brand, because it would not even begin to power up. No lights, etc.
Makes me wish I stayed with Intel chips, but does not really make sense.