At the end of the day I can only choose one huh? I think after seeing everything I'm going to go with the first build above from jerubedo. I also liked Trevb0t's second build with the 1660 Ti but I didn't like the sacrifice to storage to get it. I also liked Herman Mcpootis' build because of the Vega 56, but I didn't like the sacrifice to the RAM for it. It also looks like the 9400F is the better choice so overall I think that build is the best all rounder for my needs.
Again thanks!