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    Fatlooser123 got a reaction from MastaC in Best AMD Ryzen 5 to pair with ROG Strix x470-f gaming motherboard?!?   
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    Fatlooser123 got a reaction from Anghammarad in Deal with loss of a loved one.   
    Thank you all for your support i have now mastered the last stage of grief acceptance. Death is sadder for you than for the actually dead, 'cause their actually away from all this bad and at worst their somewhere quiet in the nothing and at best their in the next existence or in heaven or a spirit somewhere better. I'm still a little sad, but thinking about him makes me smile again and not cry.
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to wasab in Deal with loss of a loved one.   
    Drink loads of alcohol.
    Work all the time and do nothing else.
    In short, putting the two together, become a workaholic.
     
    You will be busy and so drunk, you will forget about the deaths of everyone. 
     
    Edit: Crap. Didn't realize you are underage. Guess drinking isn't an option for you. Maybe a trip to the Disney land and some chocolate bars will cheer you up 
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Tcrumpen in Deal with loss of a loved one.   
    People seem to have this notion that cats don't understand humans they do but just don't show it the same way a dog does. Cats are actually very caring of their owners
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to AskTJ in Deal with loss of a loved one.   
    Pets are your best friend. I have a cat, but a dog will help more as they can feel human emotions. 
     
    I am getting chickens soon so those can also help you take your mind off it.
     
    I know this as my Grandpa passed away 70 days ago, 2 days after my mums birthday, and we hadn't seen him in 5 years as we live overseas. I still think about him each and everyday, but I know there is nothing I can do but move on.
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Majinhoju in Deal with loss of a loved one.   
    My brother in law passed away back in February from a drug overdose.  It shocked everyone, i think only 2 people even know he using drugs.  I had no idea.  I wish I had known so I could have been there to help him out.  This loss has hit the family hard, it even hit me hard as I've known him since was a kid (10 years old).  He died at age 26.
     
    It's going to hurt for a while.  My wife still has her breakdowns over it.  But time will eventually make things easier.
    I found being around those that who were close to him helped.  We'd talk about him and remember the good times.
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to dual290x in Deal with loss of a loved one.   
    I have lost many loved ones. I hate to be the fuel on the fire but death is a sucky part of life. It something that we have to learn to accept, deal with, and move on. Those that we love would not want us sulking around feeling sorry for ourselves or mourning the loss forever. Mourning is a part of the process. Harming yourself won't solve the issue. I deal with daily depression that requires medication. You must learn to accept and move on, otherwise every loss will be worse.
     
    I mourned my Uncle and family friend (who was more of a grandmother than my own grandmother), but I had to move on because life required me to. Be glad they are dead (I hate to use the words pass or moved on, it is what it is). They are no longer in pain or in constant worry.
     
    Do yourself a favor and put away the sad songs and stuff, get up and go do things.
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Tcrumpen in Deal with loss of a loved one.   
    Having dealt with this first hand (my brother killed himself almost 3 years ago), let me say that the pain is natural, everyone process's grief differently. I'd advise that you find a confidant in your friends or family (whichever you feel closer to) and just open up to them, you'd be surprised how good you can feel after opening up to someone. Also don't be ashamed to cry. It's a traumatic event and no-one will give you grief for it (and if they do then fuck em). I'd also advise going to see a grievance counsellor
     
    Recovery is not going to be easy or quick, it will plague you the rest of your life, what you can do is develop coping mechanisms, you need to give yourself time to go through the stages of grief. They will come and go in any order at any time. As morbid as this may sound i'd get the death certificate from the coroner and take it to your school and demand leave to process/deal with this. Most schools will grant this especially since you have the death certificate; however if it's not immediate family (brother, mother etc.) they may question the validity of you needing time to process this
     
    If you must post what happened on social media, only do so when you feel ready; also i'd STRONGLY advise getting permission from who ever it might be before you do so (AKA if it was say your brother, talk to your parents about it; if it was a friend get their parents consent. etc.)
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Anghammarad in Deal with loss of a loved one.   
    One thing I forgot... don't hurt yourself to dull emotional pains, this won't help but only suppress the emotional stress you are in and put the new hurt on top. 
     
    Learn to let yourself feel the emotional pain, cry if you feel like it, shout if you need to... let them out, only then you will at some time be able to live with it.
     
    And as stupid as it now may sound, every single piece we burden us with, carry around our whole life on our back, that is only because we haven't found closure with those things. As soon as we can do this, we need to take those former burdens down from our back and put them in the foundry of what makes us who we are and let it be a part of the things that give us strength instead of burden us.
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Trippett in Hypothetical Benchmark   
    I think This is about as close as a person would get without blindly guessing, or actually buying the parts.
     
    http://www.userbenchmark.com/PCBuilder
     
    not sure about the accuracy but it has alot of benchmarks to draw from for information
     
     
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Anghammarad in Deal with loss of a loved one.   
    well... there were many good meant advises I received after losing my wife 2 years ago... 
     
    I just list a few:
     
    Be near nature, walk in a park, woods, lake what ever you have in your vincity and isn't harmfull...
     
    Talk about your feelings, talk about memories... as often as you can... (in my case, I had to decide to shut down life support, and I sat next to her, trying to comfort her while she was passing away, trying not to break down myself)
     
    Enjoy alone time when you feel like being alone...
     
    Feelings are totally fine, tears are fine, pain is fine... this shows that you are a living and feeling being. There is nothing wrong with that. Having absolutely no feelings, you don't want that, trust me, been there, lived through it...
     
    Write down what is going on in your mind, your thoughts...
     
    Write a last letter to the person who departed, put everything in you want to say. Then got somewhere nice outside, and burn the letter.
     
    Going through a loss isn't something you'll get over in a few days... It takes time.. I'm still broken and am not able to go to parties for example... had to leave a bbq at the company I work for because I was gogin to a total meltdown... well some looked funny at me, but I just plain told them why I left to work on instead of enjoy my time having a burger with everybody else...                           
     
    Maybe I can remenber other advise I received... I'll add it then.
     
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to mr moose in Deal with loss of a loved one.   
    Everyone deals with it differently, I personally take comfort in the finality and inability to change anything about death (juxtaposition that to splitting up with someone who can send you horrid signals and make life awful). The only advise I have is stick with it because very few people grieve excessively for ever and the more honest you are with yourself the better you will feel about it long term. 
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Teddy07 in Deal with loss of a loved one.   
    I know your feeling. I am still so sad years later.
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to AbdulAPA in When does it count as a new PC?   
    Imo you have a new pc when u change ur desktop wallpaper
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Julian5 in When does it count as a new PC?   
    New platform usually involves a CPU, Motherboard and sometimes ram upgrade, I would consider that a new PC.
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    Fatlooser123 got a reaction from MastaC in Best AMD Ryzen 5 to pair with ROG Strix x470-f gaming motherboard?!?   
    Its a 200+ Mb so i hope his budget is a little higher.
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    Fatlooser123 got a reaction from MastaC in Best AMD Ryzen 5 to pair with ROG Strix x470-f gaming motherboard?!?   
    Every newer ryzen is good for this.
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Christophe Corazza in This mb will work well with this memory?   
    As you can see on the product page of ASRock, it clearly states that the motherboard supports DDR4 3200+ RAM modules:
    https://www.asrock.com/MB/AMD/AB350M/index.asp
     
    When you look at the support tab, it mentiones the 'F4-3200C14D-32GTZR' as being supported.
    https://www.asrock.com/MB/AMD/AB350M/index.asp#Memory
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Dissitesuxba11s in Best AMD Ryzen 5 to pair with ROG Strix x470-f gaming motherboard?!?   
    Ryzen 5 2600 if you want to save some money and just use the included Wraith Stealth Cooler.
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to forregacc02 in $1000USD PC Build help   
    Hi there, check out this build. This is a good bang for buck build
     
    PCPartPicker part list / Price breakdown by merchant
    CPU: Intel - Core i3-8100 3.6GHz Quad-Core Processor  ($118.69 @ OutletPC) 
    Motherboard: MSI - B360M PRO-VD Micro ATX LGA1151 Motherboard  ($56.98 @ Newegg) 
    Memory: Team - Vulcan 16GB (2 x 8GB) DDR4-2400 Memory  ($139.99 @ Newegg) 
    Storage: Inland - Professional 120GB 2.5" Solid State Drive  ($24.99 @ Amazon) 
    Storage: Seagate - Constellation ES 3TB 3.5" 7200RPM Internal Hard Drive  ($59.99 @ Amazon) 
    Video Card: Gigabyte - GeForce GTX 1060 3GB 3GB Windforce OC Video Card  ($214.98 @ Newegg) 
    Case: Cougar - MX330 ATX Mid Tower Case  ($24.99 @ SuperBiiz) 
    Power Supply: Corsair - CXM 550W 80+ Bronze Certified Semi-Modular ATX Power Supply  ($32.98 @ Newegg) 
    Monitor: Acer - KN242HYL 23.8" 1920x1080 60Hz Monitor  ($119.89 @ OutletPC) 
    Keyboard: Redragon - K551-RGB VARA Wired Standard Keyboard  ($44.99 @ Amazon) 
    Mouse: Redragon - Mammoth Wired Laser Mouse  ($26.99 @ Amazon) 
    Total: $865.46
    Prices include shipping, taxes, and discounts when available
    Generated by PCPartPicker 2018-06-18 23:18 EDT-0400
     
    Total amount is lower than the budget, but spending more than this would make this a less bang for buck build. CPU: i3-8100 - Really powerful CPU. Would suffice any gaming system below a GTX 1080. Motherboard: Just your basic B360 Mobo. Enough for everyday gaming. RAM: 16gb is really needed nowadays. Most AAA games would be very limited with 8gb. Storage: Cheap-O SSD for your OS, and a good amount of storage for your files. GPU: The 1060 3gb is the best value GPU right now. It's inexpensive, but very powerful. Case: Just your average case with good cable management and included fans. PSU: An okay quality semi-modular PSU for easier cable management. Monitor: Just your average 1080p IPS monitor with built in speakers. Keyboard: I chose this keyboard just because of the Outemu Blue switches. It's the best Mechanical Switch out there. Better than the Cherry MX Blue. Mouse: Good quality braided mouse that's customizable via software.
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Tsuki in Help im fat   
    bmi is worthless.
    you're barely overweight, so the first thing you should do is stop calling yourself fat, thats not helping.
     
    cut out sugar completely and cut back on carbs. then start running.
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to DeLorian in Help im fat   
    80% is diet and 20% is moving around if you want to lose weight. Watch your diet, don't eat sugar or crappy carbs, more protein and veggies. Also, I recommend intermittent fasting.
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Teddy07 in Help im fat   
    Just eat less. I also do not eat sugar-heavy products. I also only have fruits at home and no sweets.
     
    I lost 6kg last month with this simple trick.
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Godlygamer23 in Help im fat   
    I totally agree, but the war on sugar is somewhat unwarranted.
     
    Sugar in high doses is absolutely terrible, but so is everything else. We certainly consume too much sugar, but that's due to companies putting it in everything. 
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    Fatlooser123 reacted to Froody129 in Help im fat   
    Nah at gym . People just casually checking each other out and judging each other is weird to me. 
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