I've played FFXIV:AAR since launch, and love it.
Use to play WoW, but something about FFXIV just hooked me.
It PC/PS3/PS4 Cross-play (If you buy it for each console), and using a controller playing this is actually quite good!
Aside from that, ESO didn't quite do it for me, it made me rather play skyrim. However the upcoming Wildstar looks pretty decent!