This isnt really meant for this forum but since its my favourite and I trust the people here I will say it anyway. I am mid-teens and I live in Greece,Europe and Im in the first grade of highschool.
My problem is that I cant make friends easily. I have like 5 friends that we are talking daily as a result of school and other lessons and 2 best friends that ive known the 1st close to 8 years and then second 4.
My 5 friends have each their best friends so we dont hang out together so I only talk outside of school with my 2 best friends. I want to live a happy life so I would like to be able to do many things like trips with friends and such or late night bars(not drinking),gaming and lots of other activities. I have found out over the years that my 2 best friends are not enough for me and that I want to be in a big circle and be able to live nice teen years. I feel so different tho,for example,i dont like the character and the behavior of most of my peers and most of them arent really interesting to talk to.I have what I consider to be many hobbies such as technology and pc knowledge being a gamer,loving wildlife especially reptiles( I have a dog and a boa as pets and watch lots of documentaries) and loving music as well as playing the drums. 80-90% of my class dislikes me and doesnt want to spend time with me. Most of them just play or know a lot about sports and netflix of which I hate both. What I hate most is that girls tend to approach boys that I hate to talk to and would not like to be my friend and only approach my friends when they "change" their character to a point that if they were like that infront of me and not just girls I wouldnt want them to be my friends. What can I do to expant my friends circle and enjoy these years with friends as I have been feeling lonely for the past 2 years or so.
Thanks a lot,
Manos