I'm mad about it of course, but it's my own fault. Live and learn.
Not tryina drag this post out so I'll end it with a maybe funny story? To lighten the mood of my stupidity.
When I went and picked the CPU up from the shop, the guy(new guy, I practically live here and never seen him before) was like, "Yeah first builds are the worst, when you don't know what you're doing and accidentally mess your stuff up."
My response "Oh yeah totally, first build. Must've bricked my ssd when I put it in the clip. Can I get a bag?"
I thought it was funny at least, wulp back to square one, happy building guys.