thanks @lukart, im still stuck on a few things, g skills ripjaw series v is like 20$ cheaper than corsairs so i may go with that. I read some posts about the extreme 4 taking higher than most other mobo voltage for a decent overclock so I may spend the extra 20$ and get a fatal1ty K6. For the case although the meshify is sexy I've always wanted to wall mount a pc so i may go for a thermaltake core p3.
Thanks again all for the help