If you plan to use Optix, then go with NVidia, yes. Just not 4060, it will be a waste of money compared to 3060 Ti. You could go for 4060 Ti 16 GB version, but that will eat all of your budget, so 3060 12 GB is going to be your choice, most likely.
Also go for 12400 (especially if it's cheaper than 12400F), I'd actually suggest getting it over 12600KF since Intel iGPUs are better for video editing with something like DaVinci Resolve. Besides, if your GPU dies, you'll have a backup to continue working. And additional 4 efficiency cores and 2 MB of L3 cache aren't worth much in terms of rendering performance. Also you'll save money for a possible future upgrade like 13900K. Or spend them toward getting a 3060 Ti G6X... Or a motherboard with Z790 chipset that would allow that upgrade path.