I met people in highschool and made some friends that way, met some other people through those friends the years following highschool but I havn't reached out IRL and met anyone on my own. We had good times but they have all went where life took them.
I've met people online on my own but I feel that's because people arn't as concerned about their own insecurities online and don't try to hide their wounds with bs that's not even entertaining. But rather I havn't met anyone online in a while that I liked.
I don't care what they think, they have some things I need them for which are at risk if they find out. What do the fun people use to date these days? POF seemed mostly like a bag of dirt. I don't necessarily want a relationship, I'd rather find a good group of friends first. As pointless as that seems because people havn't done anything except disappoint recently.
Hobby wise I like helping gamer friends (which I have 0 of these days) with computers, building and figuring out specs for computers.
I liked playing Yugioh but I feel I will be stared at as a weirdo/creep if I do play it at this point (I look old, although I'm 6-10 years younger than what I look).
Can't do any exercise these days due to some medical issues
How do I find community events?
Volunteer, I do like that but I mostly find senior citizens there. I like the elderly but I'm not trying to lose yet another person.