Understood what?

Oh that's odd. The video did not embed. 

Interesting.

Would she just not have ha an opinion?

No, she would in the group that Kyle is criticizing here. Being left was her edgy thing and she would get mad if you didn't use the insular language mentioned in the video. She would berate me / pick fights bc I wouldn't use her language even though we agreed with each other at the end of the day. Not fun, not a healthy relationship. 

Ah I see.

It's sad that politics is so fucked these days.

You agree, but not enough, or not with the right terminology and it's enough to make enemies of people.

It also makes me sad to hear people use the term "dunked on" when they mean someone disagreed with someone.  Like everything is a win/lose proposition.