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shouldervalley reacted to cluelessgenius in social help please
no problem man. life is hard and we always hav to remember the situation and our place in it. i get that you feel responsable but the fact is you are not. of course you want your mom to be happy so try to help her but dont let it bring you down. also i think you should talk with her about it at some point. just sit down and talk what you really think but handle it as if it was a intervention - create a save environment, dont judge/insult/blame her, just talk about her being unhappy and how you two could find something to change that. me personally my dad has dementia and explaining why he should do things this or that way instead of how he did it till ow is a really tuf and constant part of my life. he is afraid of any change whatsoever and doesnt get the simplest arguments. but him being my dad and all i want him to be happy and so i try to be really patient and respectful also reassuring when talking to him like its not something he did wrong its just something that could be so much better if he changed this or that. i dont know as said social life is hard
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shouldervalley got a reaction from jaffacakes in social help please
So my parents got divorced 4 years ago and since then I have been living with my mom and my brother. A year ago my brother moved out. after that I have been feeling like I have to do stuff with my mother, because she doesn't really have anyone else. the last two weeks she has been of from work, that made the situation even worse. I am also pretty active I spend a lot of my time at the skatepark (like 4-6 hours a day) and I am 18 in a month. and my mother has been having to do stuff herself. she's doing that guilt thing so it kills me to see that she's sad that I don't go with her.
I just don't know how to deal with the situation and any help is appreciated.
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shouldervalley reacted to Viepert in "Clean Build" by Viepert
Thanks guy's i passed on the good will to my girl.
You'll be hearing from me again, no doubt. But it might take awhile.
Grettings from the Netherlands.
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shouldervalley reacted to Infernal Burrito in Lookie What I Found!
I found a sealed bag with 3 microsoft floppies of MSDOS in it along with a black box with 3 other MSDOS floppies. I also found Windows 3.1 with a manual and a bunch of 5.25 inch floppies.
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shouldervalley reacted to SSOB in So.. Today is the day..
Goodluck, it's your first day and you know what i'm going to say it. You will fail. How do i know this? I am a smoker myself and i smoke a lot less than you ( About 10-15 cigarettes a day) and everytime i try to quit the first 3 days are fine. Untill the nicotine goes out of your system and you can not sleep well and probably you are going to gain some weight.
What i reccomend is the best method IMO to really fully quit. Not E-cig's or all that but just really simple.
You smoke 1.5 pack a day so try to only smoke about 20 every day. After a month or so smoke 15 do this for a half year and gradually build it off untill you reached 1-2 a day. This is a CRITICAL point many people fail by Quitting now but ( And yes this may sound weird.) you need to smoke 1-3 cigarretes a day for a year or so. After that you will realise that it's not worth it anymore and you will eventually quit without even thinking of quitting.
-A fellow smoker ( Unfortunatally)
My tactic to smoke less is smoke somthing ''different ( See my location )
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shouldervalley reacted to Nineshadow in Who should i ask to dance
Get yo' hands on some titties.
That's all it matters.
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shouldervalley got a reaction from nj4ck in Loud gaming pc PLS HELP
open the case and stop the fans for a second if the noise stops then it's that fan.
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shouldervalley reacted to Ssoele in Project CORE GTX
Adding some pictures now, most of the stuff just came in.
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shouldervalley got a reaction from mooommo in Re-Upgrading to windows 8
I think you can get the windows 8 isos from microsoft. I can start searching for a link.
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shouldervalley got a reaction from IdeaStormer in 2.5" vs 3.5" drive speeds
if they have the same specs othervise they should be the same
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shouldervalley reacted to ShadowCaptain in Office PC
But she isnt doing anything graphics related, G3220 performance is really solid, Its what my work PCs use and what my server uses - really good processor
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shouldervalley got a reaction from Sharif in Office PC
why not go amd apu with this. intels integrated graphics isn't good at all
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shouldervalley reacted to beebskadoo in The vehicles in Watch Dogs will each feature their own first-person cockpit view.
Leaked XboxOne version screenshots
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shouldervalley got a reaction from Gix7Fifty in Help with upgrading
just get another graphics card ''upgrading'' the 8320 to i5 would be wasting money.
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shouldervalley reacted to needmorewood in HALF LIFE 3 CONFIRMED
but it really has been confirmed
http://i.imgur.com/Driwy.jpg
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shouldervalley got a reaction from SuperStroopwafel in Looking for a new headset
they are actually developed with beyerdynamic so the sound quality is nearly high end headphone quality
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shouldervalley got a reaction from flibberdipper in Patatap is Awesome!
thanks but now i'm jealous of yours
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shouldervalley got a reaction from SuperStroopwafel in Looking for a new headset
I will recommend qpad qh-85 (open back) or qh-90 (closed back).
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shouldervalley got a reaction from abhay6547 in Patatap is Awesome!
thanks but now i'm jealous of yours
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shouldervalley got a reaction from AlwaysFSX in Toyota has a hideous car logo, and they are not alone
the logos isn't something you can just change the ford logo has been basically the same since the 50s
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shouldervalley got a reaction from JokuTyyppi in Another G5 - Finished the case..For now..
It's a place in helsinki
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shouldervalley got a reaction from Cacao in what do you consider ''good battery life''
I have just gotten used to it with a charger next to my bed. and I use it as an alarm clock to so it doesn't bother me
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shouldervalley reacted to Analog in Analog's Project: Isi (ft. Corsair 350D and Asus MARS 760x2) FINISHED
Nope, not my wife/girlfriend. On the wallpaper is Meghan Markle From Suits. Thank God My girlfriend doesn't consider this cheating.