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Avericious

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  1. Just now, Strando123 said:

    guys i got this, if this thread is off tpic and someone goes off topic from offf topic then that means we are always on topic!

    Flawless logic.

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    2 minutes ago, Mister2010 said:

    i dont think she fully understood ... since its really difficult to explain how it feels to a person that doesnt even understand anxiety

    Indeed.

    3 minutes ago, Mister2010 said:

    so most of the time she said how nice of person as a guy i was .... and she thinks that will change .... and most likely will not by too much ... i hope

    Apparently that is a common fear for some parents. But of course you won't change. You are the person that you are, with the interests and preferences you have. They're a result of a life lived and having a new pronoun and physical changes means little to how you have already developed. Changes may come in the future, but so does it for everyone equally.

     

    Some parents just need some reassurance of these things. So if you haven't already, you should.

    Just now, DeezNoNos said:

    but going to university next year. I am actually excited. I will be able to fully explore my LGBT side.

    That's good.

    Just now, DeezNoNos said:

    But its fine, the country is good on almost ever other aspect.

    I've no doubt.

  2. Just now, ServerGuy said:

    and is actually something completely unrelated, but I'm not really able to talk about it

    That's ok. I will of course, not inquire about it. But I hope it resolves for you.

  3. Just now, DeezNoNos said:

    Luck you, i kind of did the same thing but only told my mom. Well turns out, she wasnt too happy. Like she wasnt made. she just did not belive it. And her reaction of refering me a girl was also kind of a bit mocking. So i stop mentioning it and she kinda forgot. And it turns out, the view of my family and Islam towards people who transition is more fucked up than i thought. Like we are just supposed to fight the feeling and ignore. Turns out i am actually quite good at that lol. Well i do that because it will make shit REALLY werid in my whole family and honestly, i dont really need to transition. I guess my case is not as bad as some peoples.

    Damn, crappy situation. But as long as you don't have any extreme dysphoria and can live fine, I suppose you could put it off. I still say that it's your life and you deserve to be able to do what makes you happy. Do you live with your parents? If so whenever you get a place of your own and get a little space from it all you should explore options then. If you are already by yourself and feel like this then I guess that's that. I wish you a happy life. But if you ever start getting really down about the issue in the future, I recommend at least considering saying screw it to ignorance and go for it.

    10 minutes ago, ServerGuy said:

    I do want to come out to my parents, but with personal situations, I don't think now is a good time...

    I know how you feel. So take it at your own pace. But I think you'd be surprised how amicably things can go down when the whole issue is suddenly about a family member rather than some other people out there in the world. And with some patient explanation, most can be made to understand. But I don't know your particular situation, so that's just some general encouragement. If you don't feel it reasonable to bring it up at this point, that is of course up to you.

  4. 6 minutes ago, DeezNoNos said:

    nah go ahead anyway*

    as in bring us back to the topic for a bit

    Ah, I see. Very well then. 

     

    I finally just let go and spilled everything to my mom, about being transgender and to a lesser extent, pansexual. She was totally cool with it and is gonna help me out, all of my family was totally cool with it too and I'm starting the the process of my transition officially tomorrow. These events having transpired it were like years worth of built up anxiety and other bullshit just slid right off my back. I should have done it way, way sooner. But in the end, I'm super happy.

  5. 2 hours ago, Okjoek said:

    non-fiction Anime?

    By non-fiction, do you mean that it happened historically or do you mean that it should not be fantastical. In other words, realistic. The titles are dependent on which.

  6. Mass Effect 1-3

    The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

    Deus Ex: Human Revolution

    Dark Souls 1-3

    Dragon Age Inquisition

    All mainline Pokemon games

    Pokemon Mystery Dungeon: Explorers of Time

    Pokemon Super Mystery Dungeon

    Fallout: New Vegas

    Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic

    Saints Row: The Third

    Yakuza 4 and 5

    Ratchet & Clank 2: Going Commando

    The Legend of Zelda: Twilight Princess

    Crash Bandicoot 3

    MediEvil

     

    There are probably some more I can't remember at the moment. Also, only two times is the minimum. If I really like a game I've usually played it four times or more. Some as many as twenty.

  7. 1 hour ago, Belgarionbg said:

    Nice. I`ll wait till the time VR hentai is available. :3

    Only the most noble of motivations I see. :P

    I do believe that VR hentai is already a thing though. I recall seeing a couple of articles about it. Of what quality and amounts I am unsure, but hey, I'll leave that for you to figure out.

  8. 6 hours ago, MineralMining said:

    I don't think you understood it

    This is among the shittiest excuses fanboys make. You are not a special individual with more discerning tastes than the rest. They didn't like it, your opinion to the contrary means nothing.

  9. 22 hours ago, zymax_be said:

    It has been such a long time since I've been on here, anything this season worth watching? 

    JoJo's Bizzare Adventure: Diamond is Unbreakable is GAR action at it's finest.

    Haven't you heard? I'm Sakamoto is a fun show about a guy that is impossibly perfect.

    Gundam Thunderbolt recently ended which was great space mecha action.

    Gundam The Origin just got it's third episode. Less mecha action, more grounded in political intricacies and military action. It's an OVA retelling of the original Gundam if I'm not mistaken. In any case it's one of the best anime of recent years and should be watched.

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